Nānā: 292 Mea kākau: Kaylee Publish Time: 11-15-2023 Kumu: Paena
ʻO nā kaikamāhine, e like me kā mākou e ʻike ai, makemake wale e leʻaleʻa!A he aha ka mea e ʻoi aku ka leʻaleʻa ma mua o ka hoʻolilo ʻana i hoʻokahi lā ma ka loko a i ʻole ke kahakai, ka ʻauʻau lā a i ʻole ka ʻauʻau ʻana i ka wai hoʻomaha?Ke koi nei nā hanana e ka nalu i ka bikini maikaʻi loa i kāu hōʻiliʻili.Eia naʻe, aia kekahi mau mea ʻauʻau maʻamau faux pas i hana ʻia e nā wahine e hōʻino i kā lākou ʻauʻau hoʻopiʻi ma mua o ka hoʻomaka ʻana.Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hopohopo no ka mea ua hāʻawi mākou iā ʻoe i ka papa inoa o nā hewa ʻeiwa e hoʻōki koke ʻoe i ka hana ʻana!No laila, e hoʻonui kāua me kāu koho ʻauʻau.
ʻAe, he lole ʻauʻau kā mākou a pau e hoʻomaikaʻi nui iā mākou a kūpono maikaʻi iā mākou.Eia naʻe, pono ʻoe e neʻe i mua no ka mea ua kūʻē ʻo ia iā ʻoe no ka manawa lōʻihi loa, e ke kaikamahine!Hoʻopili pinepine nā wāhine i ko lākou lole, no laila he mea paʻakikī iā lākou ke hoʻokaʻawale i kahi ʻāpana a lākou e pono ai.A pehea ʻoe e loaʻa ai kahi lumi no nā lole hou inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e haʻalele?E nānā kākou, inā i kūpono kou kapa ʻauʻau kahiko iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole paha ia i kūpono e like me ka wā ma mua ma muli o nā mea kahiko a i ʻole, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻolālā kahiko.E hoʻokuʻu i kahi kapuaʻi.ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu lole ʻauʻau kahiko hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻimi no nā mea hou a hoʻokokoke hoʻokahi ʻanuʻu i ka ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi.I kēia mau lā, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā kiʻi ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi loa me nā hiʻohiʻona e hana i nā kuhi hewa, nā hiʻohiʻona kiʻi, a i ʻole e hoʻoponopono i ka nui o ka ʻōpū.Ke hoʻohiki nei au iā ʻoe aia kahi mea maikaʻi aʻe e kali nei iā ʻoe ma ka pūnaewele.E ka meli, pono ʻoe e ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi!
Pehea mākou e ʻike ai i ka mea maikaʻi loa no mākou iho a i ʻole nā mea a mākou e hauʻoli ai?ma ka hāʻawi wale ʻana i kahi pana hou!ʻO ka hoʻololi ʻana i kā mākou hiʻohiʻona ma nā ala i manaʻo ʻole ʻia he mea a ka hapa nui o mākou makemake ʻole e hana a makaʻu paha e hoʻāʻo.Ma muli o ko mākou maʻa mau i ka ʻaʻahu ʻana i ka lole maʻamau, ʻaʻole mākou i noʻonoʻo i ka nui o kahi ʻano e hoʻopili ai i ko mākou ʻano.No ke aha, e ka pēpē, ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i ka pono e kaupalena iā ʻoe iho i hoʻokahi hoʻolālā wale nō inā he nui nā ʻano koho ʻē aʻe a me nā ʻano like ʻole o nā bikini e koho ai?Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo i kahi e hoʻomaka ai a i ke ʻano o kou kino, e kipa iā Abely e nānā i kekahi nā ʻano lole ʻauʻau kupaianaha i kēia manawa i ke ʻano a kūpono paha i kou ʻano kino.
Manaʻo paha ka hapa nui o ʻoukou he mea ʻuʻuku ka nani o ka monokini a i ʻole ka moekolohe ma hope o ka ʻike ʻana i nā lede he mea kupanaha i loko o nā bikini ma kahakai a i kahi pāʻina wai.False! ʻO nā monokinis ka waina a me ka manawa pau ʻole i loaʻa iā lākou kahi hiʻohiʻona a me kā lākou ʻano ponoʻī.ʻO nā mea a pau āu e hana ai, ʻo ke koho i ke koho kūpono nou iho.E ho'āʻo i kekahi mau monokinis nani me nā kāʻei ʻokoʻa a i ʻole he pale kala a i ʻole nā ʻokiʻoki nani.ʻO kēia kekahi ʻano lole ʻauʻau haʻahaʻa akā nani.No laila, mai ʻae ʻoe i kou makaʻu e kāohi iā ʻoe mai ka ʻae ʻana i kēia ʻano nui.
Maopopo iaʻu ke kaʻina hana o kāu noʻonoʻo: 'Hiki iaʻu ke hūnā i ka ʻili a me ke kaumaha ke kūʻai au i ka nui i ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o koʻu nui maoli.' a i ʻole 'Hiki paha iaʻu ke nānā aku i ka liʻiliʻi inā koho wau i kahi liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi.' A e kuʻu aloha , ma laila ʻoe i hana hewa ai.ʻAʻole e hūnā ke kūʻai ʻana i kahi nui nui a liʻiliʻi paha i kou mau hemahema;ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hōʻike ʻia ʻoe e ʻoi aku ka lahilahi - ʻoi aku ka ʻokoʻa o ka mea āu e makemake ai e ʻike ma kahakai a i ʻole ka loko.E koho i kahi bikini i kūpono loa—ʻaʻole paʻa loa a ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu.Inā makemake ʻoe e uhi i kou ʻili a i ʻole nā pihi, e hoʻāʻo i kahi hoʻolālā ʻokoʻa, akā e hoʻomaopopo pono i kou kino i kēlā me kēia manawa.ʻO ka mea hope loa āu e makemake ai, ʻo ka hui ʻana o kāu bikini i nā wahi ʻē a i ʻole ka hoʻomohala ʻana i nā wele maikaʻi ʻole.
No kēia kumu, ua ʻike paha kekahi o ʻoukou i ka hana ʻino o nā kapa ma kahakai, ʻaʻole maopopo i ka mea e ʻaʻahu ai.He manaʻo maikaʻi paha ke kaula bikini inā ʻoe e hoʻomaha a puni ka lā, akā inā makemake ʻoe e ʻaʻahu i kekahi no nā hana e like me ka ʻauʻau ʻana, ka heʻenalu, ka holo wai, a i ʻole kekahi hana ʻē aʻe, e komo ʻoe pilikia no ka mea e paheʻe mau ana kou kapa ʻauʻau. ʻO ka lole ʻauʻau kino ke koho kūpono no nā haʻuki kahakai paʻakikī.Hiki iā ʻoe ke leʻaleʻa i kāu haʻuki wai me ka hopohopo ʻole i kāu mea e ʻaʻahu nei no ka mea hāʻawi ia i ka uhi maikaʻi a me ke kākoʻo.
Maopopo iaʻu ke ulu nei ke ʻano o ke kanaka a me ka palaualelo i waena o kākou i kēia manawa.I ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e hōʻemi i ka nui o ka manawa e pono ai, hoʻopau ʻoe i ke kūʻai ʻana i hoʻokahi-nui-kūpono-a pau bikini tops a me lalo.ʻO ka hopena o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole like ka nui o lalo a me luna o kēlā me kēia kanaka, ʻaʻole kūpono kēia no kēlā me kēia.He pilikia koʻikoʻi kēia no ka poʻe i hoʻohālikelike ʻia ko lākou kino e like me ka hola aniani, ka pea, a i ʻole ka huinakolu.Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kahi puʻupuʻu nui ʻoiai inā he pūhaka liʻiliʻi kou, a i ʻole.Hiki i kēia mau hui ʻelua.No laila, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kūʻai i nā pūʻulu i hiki mai i ka nui hoʻokahi e hiki ke hoʻokipa i nā mea āpau.Akā, pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale i luna a me lalo i hiki ke hoʻohālikelike ʻia i kou nui.
E hōʻoiaʻiʻo wau me ka ʻole o ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā laina tan maikaʻi loa.He mea maikaʻi loa iā mākou ke ʻaʻahu i nā lole ʻauʻau hoʻolālā i kekahi manawa, ʻoiai inā he hopena ia i ka ulu ʻana o nā laina ʻeleʻele ʻē aʻe ma ko mākou ʻili.ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hōʻole i ke komo ʻana i ka bikini ma muli o ka ʻike ʻia.Eia nō naʻe, pono ʻoe e pale i kou ʻili mai ka lā ma ka hoʻohuʻu ʻana i kahi papa mānoanoa o ka pale lā a i ʻole ka noho ʻana ma ka malu o kahi lāʻau a i ʻole ka malu e pale ai i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā laina ʻeleʻele.ʻO kahi ʻē aʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻolilo i nā lole ʻauʻau e hāʻawi i ka uhi kūpono no kou kua, lima, ʻāʻī, a me ka pūhaka.
Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke kamaʻāina i ka pilikia o kou kapa ʻauʻau ʻaʻole i hāʻawi i ka pae kūpono o ke kākoʻo no kou puʻu ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻokomo ʻia i ka wai.Ke hele ʻoe i ka ʻauʻau a hoʻomaka ʻoe e kaumaha, no ka mea, ua komo kou ʻaʻahu i ka wai ma o lākou iho.Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻomau i ka huki ʻana i kou neckline kiʻekiʻe inā hopohopo ʻoe e pili ana i ka hōʻike ʻana i ka nui o ka ʻili.ʻO kēia kahi mea e hiki ke maʻalahi i nā wāhine iʻoi aku ka nui o ka puʻupuʻu, a ma muli o ka hopena, pono e koho i kā lākou mau lole.Hiki iā ʻoe ke kiʻi i luna i loaʻa nā kīʻaha uea a i ʻole ke kākoʻo kaula ikaika, ʻo ia mau mea a pau e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi hoʻokiʻekiʻe liʻiliʻi, e hoʻopaʻa i ka luna ma kahi, a e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kou ʻoluʻolu.
Inā manaʻo ʻoe ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā nani i ka bikini, ua kuhihewa loa ʻoe.Ma muli o ka nui o nā koho, hiki ke ʻaʻahu ʻia nā lole ʻauʻau e kēlā me kēia, a na 'kekahi,' ʻo wau nā mea a pau.Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e hōʻike nui i ka ʻili, e koho i kahi monokini huluhulu nani a haʻahaʻa a i ʻole he bikini puʻuwai kiʻekiʻe me ka ʻili o luna.ʻO ka hoʻokomo ʻana i ka lole ʻauʻau hoʻokahi ʻāpana ke ala maʻalahi loa e hūnā i kekahi mau paona keu.ʻAʻole ʻoe e hopohopo no kekahi mea no ka mea he nui ka lumi no ʻoe e neʻe ai i loko.ʻO nā mea nui ʻelua i ka wā e hoʻokomo ai i ka ʻauʻau ʻauʻau, ʻo ia ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho a me ka minoʻaka.