Luʻu i loko o ke kauwela me kēia mau lole ʻauʻau haʻuki e pono ai no nā wahine

E hoʻokuʻu i kou koa wai i loko me kēia mau lole ʻauʻau hoʻololi pāʻani, ʻano-i mua i hana ʻia no kēlā me kēia mermaid wiwo ʻole.

Aia ke kauwela, a ʻo ka manawa kēia e pā ai i kahakai a i ʻole ka loko!I ke koho ʻana i nā lole ʻauʻau, ʻaʻole i kaupalena ʻia nā wahine i nā ʻano kuʻuna. nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki i waena o nā wahine o nā makahiki āpau a me nā ʻano kino. Ua kaulana Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻimi i nā koho lole ʻauʻau haʻuki, ʻo ia ka manawa e hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi manawa.Ma kēia moʻomanaʻo moʻomanaʻo, e ʻimi mākou i ke kumu e komo ai nā wahine i nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki, e kālele ana i kona ʻoluʻolu, nā ʻano hoʻoikaika hilinaʻi, a me ka hiki ke wāwahi i nā stereotypes.

Hōʻoluʻolu: Hoʻomaka mua i ka hana a me ke kūʻokoʻa o ka neʻe ʻana

I ka wā e leʻaleʻa ai i nā haʻuki wai a me nā hana, he kuleana koʻikoʻi ka hōʻoluʻolu.Hoʻolālā ʻia nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki me ka hana ma ka noʻonoʻo, e ʻae i nā wahine e neʻe manuahi me ka ʻole o nā kaohi.Inā ʻoe e ʻauʻau ana, heʻenalu, a pāʻani paha i ka volleyball kahakai, hāʻawi nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki i ka pono āu e pono ai.

E lawe, no ka laʻana, ka lole ʻauʻau raceback.Me kona mau poʻohiwi ākea a me ke kua i kākoʻo ʻia, ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō ke ʻano hiʻohiʻona akā mālama pū nō hoʻi i kou mau lole ʻauʻau i ka wā o ka neʻe ʻana.Pēlā nō, hāʻawi nā lalo waisted kiʻekiʻe i ka uhi a me ke kākoʻo, e hōʻoia ana i kahi ʻike hopohopo ʻole.Me nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hopohopo e pili ana i ka hoʻoponopono hou ʻana a i ʻole ka manaʻo ponoʻī iā ʻoe iho i ka wā e leʻaleʻa ana i kāu mau hana wai punahele.

Ka hilinaʻi: Manaʻo maikaʻi e pili ana i kou kino

He hana paʻakikī ke kūʻai ʻana i nā lole ʻauʻau i kekahi manawa, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe hilinaʻi i kou kino.Eia nō naʻe, hiki i nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki ke kōkua i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kou hilinaʻi a hoʻomaikaʻi iā ʻoe iho.

Hoʻolālā ʻia nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki e hoʻokūkala i kou ʻano kino a hāʻawi i ka uhi i makemake ʻia.Inā he lole ʻauʻau hoʻokahi ʻāpana me nā panela pale kala a i ʻole he top bikini me nā kaula hiki ke hoʻololi ʻia, kōkua kēia mau hiʻohiʻona e hana i kahi hiʻohiʻona ʻoluʻolu no kēlā me kēia ʻano kino.Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu a hilinaʻi i ka wā e hōʻike ana i kou ʻano pilikino.

Mai lawe wale i kā mākou ʻōlelo;nui nā wāhine i hoʻonui i ka hilinaʻi ma hope o ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki.Ua haʻi ʻo Sarah, he kanaka ʻauʻau lōʻihi, i kāna moʻolelo, 'Ua noʻonoʻo wau ma mua i ka hōʻike ʻana i nā bikini, akā mai koʻu hoʻomaka ʻana e komo i nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki, ʻoi aku koʻu hilinaʻi i loko a i waho o ka wai. ua hoʻololi loa i koʻu manaʻo.'

ʻO ka haʻihaʻi ʻana i nā Stereotypes: Hoʻoikaika i nā koho a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ke kino

No ka manawa lōʻihi, ua pili nā lole ʻauʻau no nā wahine me nā hiʻohiʻona, hōʻike i nā hoʻolālā, a me nā manaʻo o ke kaiāulu.Eia naʻe, hoʻokūkū nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki i kēia mau stereotypes a hāʻawi i ka mana i nā wahine e koho ma muli o kā lākou makemake a me ka hōʻoluʻolu.

Ma ke komo ʻana i nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki, ke haʻalele nei nā wahine i nā loina kuʻuna.Hōʻike ka lole ʻauʻau haʻuki i ka haʻuki a hoʻoikaika i ka maikaʻi o ke kino.He hōʻailona ia e hiki i nā wahine ke manaʻo hilinaʻi a nani i kēlā me kēia ʻano lole ʻauʻau, me ka nānā ʻole i ka nui o ka ʻili.

ʻO ka manawa kēia e hoʻokaʻawale ai i ka manaʻoʻiʻo ʻo nā lole ʻauʻau wale nō ke ʻano a me ka hōʻike.ʻO nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki e wehe i kahi honua o nā koho no nā wahine e manaʻo nui i ka pono, ka hana, a me ke ʻano pilikino.Hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike iā ʻoe iho me ka ʻoluʻolu i kou ʻili ponoʻī.

Ka Hopena: E ʻaʻa e lilo iā ʻoe iho a wehe i kou ʻano kū hoʻokahi

Ke hele a puni ke kauwela, mai makaʻu e hoʻololi i kāu pāʻani lole ʻauʻau.E apo i nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki, a e ʻike i ka ʻoluʻolu, ka hilinaʻi, a me ke kūʻokoʻa i hāʻawi ʻia.Luʻu i loko o ke kai a hauʻoli paha i ka hoʻomaha ʻana ma ka ʻauʻau me nā lole ʻauʻau e hoʻomaopopo a kākoʻo i kou ʻano ola.

E hoʻomanaʻo, he mea nui e hoʻokumu i kou hōʻoluʻolu a ʻaʻahu i ka mea e ʻoluʻolu ai ʻoe.Inā makemake ʻoe i ka lole ʻauʻau hoʻokahi ʻāpana no kona uhi ʻana a i ʻole ka bikini no kēlā ʻili honi i ka lā, ua uhi ʻia ʻoe i nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki.

E hoʻokaʻawale i nā manaʻolana o ka lehulehu a koho i nā lole ʻauʻau e hōʻike maoli i kou ʻano a me kou ʻano.Hoʻopili i kāu mau mea a hauʻoli i ke kauwela me nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki e hoʻolauleʻa ai i kou ʻano pilikino a wāwahi i nā stereotypes.

No laila, e nā wahine, ʻo ka manawa kēia e luʻu ai i ke kauwela a e hoʻohauʻoli me nā lole ʻauʻau haʻuki e pono ai!